Category: Happiness

The Majesty of Calmness is in the series of ebboks and mp3s that I offer over to the right. Learn to control your anger instead of it controlling you, it takes practice just like everything else but you are worth the time.

 

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If you are single by choice because you feel that a relationship is too hard, time consuming or what ever the reason, I urge you to re think the matter. We all deserve to be held tight and kissed passionately. You deserve to have a partner that challenges you as well as learns from you. You can have that storybook relationship you just have to do the work up front then the rest becomes a lot easier. It starts with knowing exactly what you want and I am talking about looks or the or the givens like being nice, clean, romantic, you have to dig deep.

1/3 of my next 90 day challenge, POF vs eHarmony. I won’t go into great details but so far so good. The new pictures and being able to change body type from average to athletic helps

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If you are single and in search of a partner, are you in the physical condition that you are searching for in a

partner? Perhaps this will give you the  motivation to achieve the health and fitness that you would desire in your mate. The type of bait you use is going to determine the type of fish that you catch.

I use the fishing analogy because I recently became reengaged on the dating site Plenty of Fish. I am going to share my journey with you and some insights on how to use the sight to your advantage. I was of a mind that I did not have time for a relationship and that the specific partner that I am looking for will be very difficult to find until I went through a Tony Robbins workshop and realized that life is meant to by shared and is 10x better when shared. Nothing compares to seeing and experiencing your joys and pleasures through the eyes of another. I see now that I can have that special person now that I have identified what I want and need. Part of the problem is that in the beginning it is all fun and fairytales when actually in the very beginning stages is when we need to do the work and ask the hard questions. You have to identify your MUSTs and MUST NOTs you SHOULDs and SHOULD NOTs. Don’t be afraid to offend or be embarrassed of your wants, needs and goals because you are looking for a LIFE time partner here.

I can go out and have a great time with anybody but the reality is that we have to deal with kids, religious beliefs, politics, short term and long term goals. If you are not sure what you want then make a list of what you know that you don’t want. We all expect and deserve honesty, kindness etc. How important is it to you to have a neat and organized house, health and exercise, your religious or spiritual beliefs. Create an environment that the 2 of you can be open, honest and non judgmental. Once you have established that you have solid common morals, principles and goals then you can go have fun and see if there is chemistry. Nothing can replace time with each other but most people are not extremely honest in the beginning and then that starts to show later after you have invested time into the relationship. Love is an emotion and comes and goes like the tide but true love is a choice. Don’t assume that love will get you through the hard times because if you choose the right partner there really won’t be any hard times. Relationships do require work but again if you do the hard work up front it should be effortless.

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Open honest communication is ALWAYS the best way to go even though it is often the hardest, put your selfish insecurities and your ego to the side and do the right thing. On the other hand, ALWAYS be prepared to hear and handle the truth, put your ego aside and get over yourself. It is not up to us to decide how someone else is going to handle what we are going to say, we have to give him or her that option, as long as we are open, honest and truthful. When someone says “I didn’t want to tell you because I didn’t want to hurt your feelings” or ” I didn’t want you to get mad”, if it is something that concerns me then let me decide how I am going to handle it, it doesn’t matter who you are, mother, brother, daughter, friend or partner, it is our moral responsibility to be honest and forthcoming as well as reasonable and rational to accept the truth. Don’t be that person that tries to protect every ones feelings and don’t be that person that wants to shoot the messenger. Being honest is bold, courageous and sexy.

Her e is a little joke for you that I found funny and reminds that every ones perception is different and for me to be as detailed as possible by not assuming, here you go

 

Sometimes we get a little blue, blah, down and out but we can’t stay there. Our emotions and feelings are part of a powerful guidance system that indicate to us that when we feel this way that something is not right. I don’t recommend digging too deep but you definitely have to find your way back to a happy place. Usually feeling the blues is because of minor set backs or because we feel we are missing something. This is when we have to find things that we are grateful for, count our blessings,  get our bodies moving and refocus on what will be instead of what is, so get up, start moving, put on some music that you like and feel how great it will feel when you reach your goal. 

If you are grateful for someone or something someone has done for you, TELL them, show them! Take 5 or 10 minutes everyday to think about all that you are grateful for, I mean get really grateful to where you get emotional about, go some where that you can express it out loud, say it feel it. You will be amazed the difference it makes when you say things out loud instead of just thinking them and then to say them with motion and emotion, you will get a warm fuzzy feeling inside and then the bad stuff doesn’t look so bad anymore. Now go share a smile and let your gratitude for. If you don’t think that you have anything to be grateful for then just think about what you would be grateful for if you had something to be grateful and that will draw it to you.

 

 

 

Sure this is easier said then done but it is a daily practice. On the days or occasions that I am unhappy, angry or not at peace I remind myself of the Serenity Prayer – “God grant me the serenity to accept the things that I can not change; courage to change the things that I can; and the wisdom to know the difference”. You will hear me mention this prayer a lot, I carry a copy of it around with me as it is  on the back of my business card. Just remember that ultimately you are in control of how you feel or react to any given situation.