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Happiness = Relationships?


joyful-woman_jump_on-beach-What does Happiness mean to you? Do you get irritated by people that are always Happy? Being Happier then you currently are should be a daily goal because it does rub off on others, it is healthier and you make better decisions when you are Happy. Start with you, get to know yourself, figure out what makes YOU tick, how to motivate yourself and get your self to a Happier sate of mind. Don’t rely on people or things to make you happy you know as well as I do that true happiness comes from with in and is directly related with the relationship that you have with your creator, because ultimately you are one in the same.

Are you grateful? It raises your HQ!


gratefullAre you grateful, because it raises you HQ = Happiness Quotient. Being grateful will you to be happier. I have realized that I need to rephrase what I am saying from, you need to be happy to you need to be happier. Every day we will experience several different emotions and it is our job to be happier. You can’t go form being completely pissed off to happy but you can do it in stages and be happier. Being grateful is great way to get happier because remember that you are no good to anyone when you are angry and upset. Not being angry or upset does not meant hat you accept the situation it just gives you a clearer head so that you can achieve your desired results and finding something to be grateful for in the situation is a good way to get to a happier place.

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Ron

Be Happy, Yes you can!


HappyNot feeling so happy today. DO you ever get that blah feeling and you don’t really know why? Those are your emotions telling you that something needs to be addressed.  I know why I feel this way, I am not having the success at the pace that I desire in part because I am not doing what I need to do to achieve that success and that is because of past failures. I know this because I have taken the time to  get to know myself  better. My first goal for today is to get myself in a happier state then to address the issue of getting over past failures and keep moving towards my goals. These things are not easy and can’t be done alone or I should say that they are much more difficult to do alone and that is why I am here, to help. We should all have some one to turn to for guidance and motivation. Now go have an awesome day.

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Ron

Don’t Choose to be alone

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If you are single by choice because you feel that a relationship is too hard, time consuming or what ever the reason, I urge you to re think the matter. We all deserve to be held tight and kissed passionately. You deserve to have a partner that challenges you as well as learns from you. You can have that storybook relationship you just have to do the work up front then the rest becomes a lot easier. It starts with knowing exactly what you want and I am talking about looks or the or the givens like being nice, clean, romantic, you have to dig deep.

1/3 of my next 90 day challenge, POF vs eHarmony. I won’t go into great details but so far so good. The new pictures and being able to change body type from average to athletic helps

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“Fishing” for your Soul Mate

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If you are single and in search of a partner, are you in the physical condition that you are searching for in a

partner? Perhaps this will give you the  motivation to achieve the health and fitness that you would desire in your mate. The type of bait you use is going to determine the type of fish that you catch.

I use the fishing analogy because I recently became reengaged on the dating site Plenty of Fish. I am going to share my journey with you and some insights on how to use the sight to your advantage. I was of a mind that I did not have time for a relationship and that the specific partner that I am looking for will be very difficult to find until I went through a Tony Robbins workshop and realized that life is meant to by shared and is 10x better when shared. Nothing compares to seeing and experiencing your joys and pleasures through the eyes of another. I see now that I can have that special person now that I have identified what I want and need. Part of the problem is that in the beginning it is all fun and fairytales when actually in the very beginning stages is when we need to do the work and ask the hard questions. You have to identify your MUSTs and MUST NOTs you SHOULDs and SHOULD NOTs. Don’t be afraid to offend or be embarrassed of your wants, needs and goals because you are looking for a LIFE time partner here.

I can go out and have a great time with anybody but the reality is that we have to deal with kids, religious beliefs, politics, short term and long term goals. If you are not sure what you want then make a list of what you know that you don’t want. We all expect and deserve honesty, kindness etc. How important is it to you to have a neat and organized house, health and exercise, your religious or spiritual beliefs. Create an environment that the 2 of you can be open, honest and non judgmental. Once you have established that you have solid common morals, principles and goals then you can go have fun and see if there is chemistry. Nothing can replace time with each other but most people are not extremely honest in the beginning and then that starts to show later after you have invested time into the relationship. Love is an emotion and comes and goes like the tide but true love is a choice. Don’t assume that love will get you through the hard times because if you choose the right partner there really won’t be any hard times. Relationships do require work but again if you do the hard work up front it should be effortless.

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Honesty is the best policy, ALWAYS!

Open honest communication is ALWAYS the best way to go even though it is often the hardest, put your selfish insecurities and your ego to the side and do the right thing. On the other hand, ALWAYS be prepared to hear and handle the truth, put your ego aside and get over yourself. It is not up to us to decide how someone else is going to handle what we are going to say, we have to give him or her that option, as long as we are open, honest and truthful. When someone says “I didn’t want to tell you because I didn’t want to hurt your feelings” or ” I didn’t want you to get mad”, if it is something that concerns me then let me decide how I am going to handle it, it doesn’t matter who you are, mother, brother, daughter, friend or partner, it is our moral responsibility to be honest and forthcoming as well as reasonable and rational to accept the truth. Don’t be that person that tries to protect every ones feelings and don’t be that person that wants to shoot the messenger. Being honest is bold, courageous and sexy.

If your not sure , ask

Her e is a little joke for you that I found funny and reminds that every ones perception is different and for me to be as detailed as possible by not assuming, here you go

 

A GOOD SENIOR MOMENT

When I was ready to check out and pay for my groceries the cashier said, “Strip down, facing me.”
Making a mental note so I could complain to our congressman about this running amok Homeland Security crap, I did just as he had instructed.
After the shrieking and hysterical remarks finally subsided, I found out that he was referring to how I should position my credit card. 
None the less, I’ve been asked to shop elsewhere in the future. 
They need to make their instructions a little clearer for seniors.

Shake the blues and the blahs

Sometimes we get a little blue, blah, down and out but we can’t stay there. Our emotions and feelings are part of a powerful guidance system that indicate to us that when we feel this way that something is not right. I don’t recommend digging too deep but you definitely have to find your way back to a happy place. Usually feeling the blues is because of minor set backs or because we feel we are missing something. This is when we have to find things that we are grateful for, count our blessings,  get our bodies moving and refocus on what will be instead of what is, so get up, start moving, put on some music that you like and feel how great it will feel when you reach your goal.