Love should be peaceful, calm and easy. If you love someone you’ll do whatever it takes to understand them and to make them happy. if they love you, they will do the same. You get what you expect you continue to get what you tolerate. It is sad to me that it seems that we have normalized that relationships are supposed to be difficult. Too many people say I am who I am. I’m not going to change. Life equals change. Change equals challenge. Challenges equal growth. Growth equals life if you’re not growing you’re dying. If you want to live and grow, accept the challenge, make a change. What small thing can you change to make that your partner will appreciate. Yes it takes two. It’s a give-and-take, but someone has to start. #truelove #hapiness #RonsChoice #grateful #bettertogether