One of the most difficult things for us to and one of the most important is to stay focused on what will be not what it is right now. Keep a steadfast vision of where you are going and what it will look and feel like when you get there. One of my favorite quotes is “I am who I am but I am not who I will be”, of course meaning that you are not who you plan to be because we are growth seeking individuals and that is why you are going through what you are so that you can create a better and brighter future for you and your children instead of sitting around and complaining about “what is” and for that I commend you.
