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Category: Happiness
How Often Do You Laugh?
A sense of Humor is so vital and important to truly enjoy life and get along with others. Can you think of a time when you took something way too serious while everyone else was laughing about it and it kind of made you the outsider for the moment or maybe even worse that you let escalate.
Some times we have to ask ourselves how a situation will affect us in 10 years 5 tears or even 1 year, most times the situation will be forgotten and not even worth getting upset about especially if it was a laughable situation. Don’t think that you will not be taken seriously if you laugh and have a sense of humor, being a leader is about setting standards and boundaries so others will know what to expect especially the appropriate times for humor.
Always keep your humor tasteful and suitable for all parties involved and never find humor at the expense of some one else .
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Are you going after you dream?
Why aren’t you going for your dreams? It saddens me to see so many people settle for less. There is a difference between wanting and not going for it versus being satisfied with little. We are all different and we all want and desire different things in life and that is Okay.
I truly respect everyone for who they are but there are those of us out there that want more, we can feel it in our soul but yet we do nothing about it. Some of us are quiet about our dreams and desires because we don’t want others to make fun of us or we don’t think that we are worthy and deserve to achieve our dreams. Some us talk big about our dreams but we don’t actually take action towards those dreams as year after year passes us by.
Go For It!!! Life is about being happy and making others happy, Live in the faith that the whole world is on your side so long as you are true to the best that is in you.
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Who Are You Going to Make Happy Today?
How many times have you heard people say, or perhaps you have even said it yourself that you will take the vacation when, or I will start that hobby when, or I will go visit when. STOP putting things off, first of all time does run out, don’t look back and regret the things that you have not done. Second, no one thing, person, situation or circumstance will make you happy, happiness is a choice that you have to make and believe it or not making others happy can and will make you happy.
You don’t have to do anything extravagant and you don’t have to seek out strangers to make happy, start with your family and friends there is very little that is more rewarding than putting a smile on some ones face and if they don’t smile or they are not thankful then you still have the satisfaction knowing that you have done the right thing and just know that it did have a positive impact on them even though they are not showing it.
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Are you Through Changing?
Hmmmm! Are you through? Are you one of those that says accept me for who I am because I am not going to change or I am always late that is just who I am or I….you get the picture. There is a difference between changing to pleas someone or changing by becoming a better person to which all of us should be striving to do every day. Again I say that Life = change=challenge =growth=life, it is a circle and if you are not growing ie changing then you are dying and this is a scientific fact.
Don’t be afraid of change or be too stubborn and let your ego get in the way of good positive growth and change. I often say that I am who I am but I am not who I am going to be. I know that when I get into a relationship that it will require change as we meld 2 lives into one, there will be compromise and growth, learning of new things as well as teaching. Sometimes it is good to make purposeful changes just to create new neuro pathways to keep us young and alive. Embrace change because when you are through changing, you are through.
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What Do You Stand For?
Do you ever see things that you feel are wrong but yet you don’t say anything about it. Perhaps you feel that it is not your place to say anything so you just keep to yourself. I believe that we all have the proverbial “line in the sand” and once it is crossed we will speak up.
I often struggle with when the appropriate time is to speak up about something, I mean I don’t want to go around being a crusader but I believe that certain people have that path to follow and when the time comes, against true injustices on humanity that we all should stand up in order to make a difference in life. You should take time to consider the things that you would stand up for and what things that you may disagree with but are not worth putting yourself or your family in harms way for.
We are all different and that is what makes the world so wonderful but there are some simple fundamental rules for us to live by so that we can co-exist and to each his own is not one of them because some people do feel that it is there right to intrude on others. If you don’t stand for something you will fall for anything. This is a deep subject but the bottom line is that if we bring love to everything that we do, the true intention to increase life where ever we go and to whom ever we meet, then and only then will we be fulfilling our purpose to serve human kind.
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Do you have talent and skills that you are not grateful for?
We all have skills and talents, some God given and some were learned. Perhaps you feel that you don’t have any skills or any talent because it is not blatantly obvious. Maybe you are very patient, extremely kind or especially thoughtful. There is something that you are good at you just have not taken the time to recognize it. Sit down for a minute and think about the things that you are good at.
Now once you have recognized your many talents just take a few moments to think of what it would be like to not have those talents and skills. Are you a great communicator, perhaps you are a really good listener and you have the ability to truly empathize and understand people, I know that is one of the skills that I have and it has served my well many times.
I personally don’t have many physical talents like painting, music or great athletic ability but I do know that many of the greats had to work really hard to get the skills that they have. Don’t discount any assets that you have no matter how small, thank God for them and be grateful.
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Are you Grateful?
So this one punched me right in the face today.
I was feeling a little frustrated with my success on a few projects that I am working which brought me down and when you are down you are not happy and when you are not happy you are not being grateful for the things that you do have and when you are not happy and grateful you not creating and open to receiving better things in you life. That is the long and short of it.
Look around you and be grateful for what you do have and this will make you happy, sometimes we have to really dig deep but when we look at it closely enough we MUCH to be grateful for regardless of situation.
How does the song go “Count your blessings one by one count your blessings and see what God has done”
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Can You Flip a Negative Thought Into A Positive One?
Negative thoughts have never served a useful purpose. If you have trouble from time to time keeping your thoughts positive try flipping the negative thoughts around. There is always something to be thankful for or positive about if we look hard enough. Instead of “I hate my job” try “I am glad that I have a job as it is better than being with out one” or “this traffic sucks” try I am thankful that I have a car and I don’t have to ride the bus”. You see there is always a positive side to everything.
OK maybe not everything but a majority of things that happen to you can be put in a positive light even though it may not seem obvious at the time. During the war a farmer prayed that his son would not have to go to war. One day they were out plowing the horse kicked him off and he broke his leg, well it turned out that a week later soldiers came to draft him but he could not go because of his broken so in retrospect the broken leg turned out to be a positive thing.
The Law of Attraction is a Universal Law that is always at work that states like attracts like which means when you pout out positive thought positive things come back to you and the same goes for negative thoughts even though we don’t see immediate obvious results. Try it for a week; try to think only positive thoughts about every thing and everyone.
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Do You Have Integrity?
Remove the ego and this is easier to do. When we stop doing things for recognition and to get some thing in return is when we reach a higher level of awareness and enlightenment. Sure we all want to be praised, thanked and to feel needed and appreciated but it is important to get beyond that need and live our lives in a manner of gratitude and giving because it in the giving that we receive.
Too many times I hear People say “why should I do that, what is in it for me” and what we don’t realize is that there are laws in the universe at work whether we realize or believe them or not, just like gravity.
Do what you do because it is the right thing to do with no expectations. When you give, give with out expecting anything in return. I am not saying that you have to go around being a saint but you will find that it frees you mind when you let go of want need and expectation.
Go out today and do something for something that they will not know that it was you. If you can do that feel good and go about your day then kudos to you but if you have this burning need to be acknowledged for what you did then you still need more practice in letting go of the ego, keep doing random acts of kindness in a way that no one knows that you are doing until you reach the point the find enjoyment in it and have no need for recognition for it.
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