Author: Ron Wilbanks

Change is challenging, challenges lead to growth and growth is essential to life. How do we handle the changes and challenges to grow in life? It is a little different for all of us, some of the fundamentals that I have found are gratitude and faith. BUT, there is always a but, it starts with a daily practice of clearing your mind, setting clear intentions and expecting that things will ALWAYS work out for the best. Anger, fear, sadness, these are normal and healthy emotions, it is part of being human. The trick is to recognize the reason for the emotion, appreciate and allow it, don’t react hastily, give it a little time but don’t stay there too long, move back to a happy feeling as soon as possible. It is very difficult to create what you want when your mind and body are not in a good place. Now that you are in a good place you can see the situation for what it is and see how it will get you to the intentions and expectations that you set earlier with the faith and absolute knowing that it will all work out.

When you start to take control and responsibility for your thoughts, feelings and actions, that is when you start to take control of your life and your reality. It does take time and practice but you must be willing to learn and change. Obviously it is easier for some than others.

You may have to change how you think feel and what you expect about relationships if you want to find the right one

MY stories come from many different sources so don’t try to analyze just take what may apply and help you and leave the rest.

Stop assuming how someone is going to think or feel about what you’re about to tell them

Too many times we are satisfied with dealing with the same problems over and over because we THINK that is a part of life. It may be for the moment but it doesn’t have to continue if you decide to focus on a solution and moving forward.

I use the concept of the serenity prayer almost everyday, here is my alternate version. You cna also follow me on tik tok @RonsChoice

I am trying to practice what I preach so here is a perfect opportunity. Being Aware of my feeling, thoughts and expectations will lead me to inspired action. the Sun is always shining, we just can’t see it because of the clouds. We have control over our own mental clouds but it does take awareness and practice.