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How long should you try?

This is one of my favorites that I refer to often. I have always had the desire for financial freedom and the ability to attract money to me for any and all of my needs and to be able to be, do, have and give as I pleased. Through the years my pursuit towards this desire has gone up and down, an ebb and flow like the tides just like many things in life but that ultimate desire for financial freedom has always been there. The ways that I have tried to obtain it has changed and been refined but have stayed true to my goal and during my journey I have increased the desire and I am now getting closer every day to making it a reality. Set your goals, write them down and even use pictures then write out an action plan and TAKE ACTION but never give up. 2 steps forward and 1 backwards is still forward progress because w e all know that life = change = challenges = growth. Imagine for a moment if you will that you are laying on your death bed and you are reflecting on your life, no, seriously take to do this, really get into the feeling that the end is here no second chances and see how many things you regret NOT doing. You really can’t regret not achieving something that you gave 100% too so then the questions remains did you, are you giving 100% to achieving your goals? At the moment you have tomorrow but one day time WILL run out. Michael Landon (actor form little house on the prairie and Bonanza) was quoted from his deathbed “Someone should tell us when we are born that we are dying”

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What Are You Waiting For?

Have you ever waited for a “better time” to do something or said “I will do it later” only to find yourself saying the same thing a month later? Sure sometimes there is a better time to do something but many times now is the best time. We get so caught up in the daily drudge of things that we don’t take advantage of the small pleasures in life or even take the time to schedule for fun. We plan and schedule work and projects, why don’t we plan time to “enjoy the roses outside our window”? I know that I have to make a conscious effort sometimes to plan for fun and of late I have made sure that my daily routine allows flexibility to spend those spontaneous moments with the kids, which with the kids it seems that most of their moment are spontaneous. Take time to enjoy the journey of life while looking for joy and pleasure in every moment.

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Have you Fallen?

Please do not dwell on mistakes because that will only hold you back from moving forward and growing. Simply ask yourself what can I learn from this to ensure that I don’t make the same mistake again, forgive your self and move on. I was trying to think of some mistakes that I could share with you, as there are many, and the one that comes to mind is my past relationships. I have loved and lost, some by my own doing and some not but over the past few years I have made a concentrated effort to learn from those experiences and in return I have learned a lot about myself and what I really want in a partner. I didn’t do this on my own as I started reading books and listening to audio programs about relationships because you don’t know what you don’t know and when you think you know it all is when you get in to trouble. Mistakes happen, learn from them and move forward with no regrets with the conviction of being a better you each and every day.

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Are you an Action taker or do you just plan?

Oh boy is this so true. I was sharing this with a client on a group coaching session just the other day. Planning is good but action is better. I use to be a big planner but followed it with little action because I would over analyze things, you know the procedure, what if this happens or this could go wrong so maybe I should do it this way, these words don’t sound just right this picture isn’t perfect…………STOP IT. Nothing will ever be perfect in the beginning, you will always have to make adjustments as you go, AS YOU GO, you have to get going first. Once you start taking action towards your goal more ideas will come to you people will start to offer suggestions and assistance because you are in action. Focus on the goal acting as if you have already attained it. When I stated on my health challenge I saw myself as a fit healthy sexy beast so through out the day when it came time to eat or exercise I would ask myself, self, what would a healthy fit sexy beast eat or how would he exercise and by doing this I stated making better choices and now do I not only think like a healthy sexy beast I am one…..lol. Act as if!

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Are You Nice?

Now you would think that this is one is a no brainer but there are many people that being nice doesn’t pay or that you always get screwed when you are nice and this is usually because we are expecting some thing in return. When ever you give or do something for others do it with a pure heart and with out expecting anything in return. If you give some money to a person in need don’t second-guess as to what they are going to do with the money. When ever you give some one some thing or do something for them out of kindness then at the point the transaction is over, you did what you did because it was the right thing to do expecting nothing in return. Many of our greatest deeds should go unseen because in the long run you are the major recipient of your kindness. Giving and being kind releases endorphins, which in turn help us to be healthier but it doesn’t work if you are waiting for something in return and holding resentment when you don’t receive it, then it has the opposite effect on your health and well being. It is Scientifically proven that laughter and being happy, really being and feeling happy not just saying it, is very beneficial to your health and healing properties. Now go out there and make someone smile just by smiling at them.

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Are You Ready To Jump?

This is just another way of saying that some times you have to just get moving with your best plan that you have and start moving towards your goal, make adjustments and figure things out along the way. Inactivity is the biggest killer of all dreams and goals. As you start to take action towards you goal answers will start to come to you. When I started on my journey to better health I started on super bowl weekend even though we were having a party. I didn’t wait even though I didn’t have a perfect plan I just knew that I had to get started and to stop making excuses for waiting. There will always be reasons to put things off. Since then I have developed an ideal menu and exercise routine that came from many setbacks but as a result of jumping off that proverbial cliff and figuring it out as I went I am now in the best shape of my life and yes this includes my High school and Army days. What ever your goal is make a choice TODAY to start taking daily action steps towards it.

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Do You Do Things Half A$$?

Do you ever procrastinate, do things half way or not all or you say “I will do it later or I will do it better next time” You have to do best that you can and everything that you can in this moment. Do all that you can in this day as efficient as you can and this day will have been a success. To try to do anymore than you are capable of or any less in a given day will lead to failure for that day. Do all that you can and to the best of your ability in this moment. Working out? Push your cardio to 85% no more no less; lift your weights to the point of muscle failure, no more no less. Building a business? Give your full attention to a specific project even if it is only for one hour at a time, do not “multi task” this leads to long drawn out projects do to the lack of focus. If you were on an operating table would you want your doctor working on you and another patient at the same time or would you prefer his undivided attention and focus? You are the doctor and you are operating on your life so give each project the attention it deserves, some time it takes more than one surgery to fix a problem so give your full attention and time to what you are doing in the moment. Oh by the way this includes having fun…..Work Hard play hard! If it is time to relax and play then put the work down and focus on having fun.

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What the ^*$%{% Did You Say!

Regardless of what anyone says to you or about you the fact is that it is up to you how you allow that to make you feel. Initially you may feel sad, angry, upset or an array of feeling but you then have to realize that what was said or done to you is not what makes you who you are, you decide that. Everyone has their own opinion about you and that is all it is, their opinion, therefore the only reasonable response to any ones criticism about you is to smile, quickly analyze the input to use anything constructive from it and continue moving forward in the faith that what you are doing is in your best interest and to the greater good of others.

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Are You Just a Dreamer?

If you dream about doing and having great things but you never take any action then you are only a dreamer. Everything that exists in the world today and yes I mean everything, started as a thought. Take the time (10 to 15 minutes a day) to sit down and build that castle in the sky, feel, I mean really feel what it is like to be, do and have what you want, visualize it with great detail THEN through out the day focus on it’s attainment, put that foundation under it. Don’t get caught up in the daily daily, focus on what “will be” because your creator wants to give you everything that you ask for but you have to ask for it and be willing to follow the path to GO AND GET IT. Need some help with you mindset? Take my 90 day mindset Challenge.

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You Need Help!

This reminds me of another quote “You don’t know what you don’t know” or unconscious incompetence. There is truly no such thing as a self made person or self made millionaire. True that some may not have had things handed to them but everyone that raised above the their situation and achieved their dreams, goals and aspiration, they all had mentors and coaches along the way to take them through the four steps of learning 1. unconscious incompetence – you don’t know what you don’t know – 2. conscious competence = I am now aware that I don’t know how – 3. conscious competence = I now know how to do it with effort – 4. unconscious competence = I now do it proficiently with out having to think about it. Find some one that has and does what you want and emulate them even if it is from a distance through reading and videos, stay true and focused and you will attract the Mentor – “When the Student is Ready To Learn The Teacher Will Appear”

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